Remember when you'd be over at your friend's house and they'd want to show you the groovy light their parents kept by the water bed in their room?
I have multiple social media accounts, but I don't really want to engage with humanity much on them.
Engage with people on a topic for a particular issue or topic? Especially responding to a post on movies or other things I want to talk to people about? Sure.
But I think we all learned a lesson leaving twitter: do not actually engage. Do not start talking to people you do not know in an uncontrolled, anonymous environment. Do not get into internet fights where you will prove someone wrong. Do not get mad when someone points out you are wrong.
But, also, you know, you don't need to live your life out loud on social media. You don't know those people.
I am currently using my accounts the following ways:
Threads: a quick scroll and mostly disappointment, but to get the basic gist of what the internet is thinking (last week I pieced together: What does Beyonce know about being Southern? is a racist dog whistle!* What a time to be alive.)
BlueSky: I see some Cubs chatter, which is nice. But mostly I follow it for FilmSky, ie: people who are true weirdos about film who don't give a shit about film twitter, and are opining, posting links and living their best movie-nerd life. Very friendly, unpretentious and lovely at the moment.
Instagram: Initially I kind of used it not at all, despite having an account for years. I am not trying to frame my life as exotic and exciting, and I don't particularly care if actors get to eat spinach salad in countries they don't live in or which fashion company gave them sunglasses. But I've now followed enough people I know, and I just use dlvr.it it to send Signal Watch blog posts. I also like to find silly stuff and repost it on Reels.
Tumblr: I use dlvr.it to repost stuff from the blog, and reblog funny pictures and some classic film stars. I also know what people in their 20's who live with their parents and don't seem to have jobs think about the world. It is wiiiiild.
Facebook (Blog-related): I use dlvr.it to send Signal Watch posts to the official League of Melbotis page. People still seem to use it. I think this page is also linked one way or another, and I'll be looking into that.
Facebook (Personal): I wouldn't even say this is a curated view of my exciting life. I do still use it because it's the only way I'm in touch with many people, or the best way for me to reach some people. A bit like why I still have a landline - because I had one in 2006, and that is where people find me, so I can't get rid of it. Plus, I do get news, weather and other things there.
I do not do politics, or anything remotely, actually "personal" on facebook. My parents, relatives, former teachers, bosses, etc... are all on there. So I used to post things that were intentionally obnoxious and silly, but now I mostly use it to be silly. Or mark "hey, it's Jamie's birthday!". That sort of thing.
LinkedIn: I actually kind of do use this at the moment as I'm between gigs. I hear from recruiters there, and talk to colleagues, plus see what those colleagues are up to. It's not all bad. But I don't read those "thought provoking" articles that get reposted. You know they aren't.
Slack: I'm on a social slack. It's all right with like four people.
But the thing I don't really do that I used to do when I was on Twitter is just put a short thread together, and I don't really have a place for things like "hey, remember the weird fluid and light things our parents had? That was weird, right?"
So, initially I thought I'd use a return to League of Melbotis to do some personal journaling, but I don't know how into that I am as a concept. Instead, I'm going to try to use it for a goofy junk-drawer for a while, which was often how it was used back in the 00's. Signal Watch can continue on as a media review site, and I'll put other stuff here.
Deal?
*our friend Bae is from Houston, and if you wanted to raise the collective dander of everyone in Texas, challenge if we know what the fuck country and cowboy culture are